If Anyone Knows Anyone…

First of all, is it possible to take Monday off and still feel like it is a long week by Wednesday morning? Apparently, it is.

The truth is, I am REALLY busy, and my life is only getting MORE busy. Unfortunately, the first thing that falls off my list when I get busy is May. Why? Because the other things are working, sleeping, and eating, and there is only so much of that you can cut before it starts to mess with your life in a big way. This means that, most weeks, I have been getting to the barn 3 days a week… some weeks are 2 days… and some weeks have even been 1 day.


Let me start by saying that May does just fine mentally on very little work. She doesn’t get spooky, hot, or silly when she has days off. Yesterday was the first time riding her in a week, the temperature had dropped 40 degrees (I kid you not), the sun was going down, and I decided to walk her down the road with a friend of mine… past herds of thoroughbred broodmares. She was, as usual, a gem.

However, she physically really needs to work more. May was the most sound and most comfortable when she was working 5 – 6 days a week consistently.


So after some thinking, talking, annoying all the horsey people around me, I decided to put May out there for a half leaser. I won’t move her off property, and I am going to be really picky about whoever I let part lease her. It might mean I don’t find anyone, and that is ok, but it could also be great. (Fingers crossed that it is great and not the worst idea I have ever had).

15.2 Belgian/QH Mare Offered for Onsite Half Lease Only

May is a stocky draft cross mare with experience eventing up through recognized BN and is capable of N with the right rider (i.e. not her owner, who is a chicken). While she is confident over fences and loves XC, she is also capable of being a straight Dressage horse and is schooling First Level. May is also an experienced trail horse and has been on hunter paces in large groups.

While May has never bolted, bucked, reared, etc, in the 3.5 years that I have owned her, she does require a confident rider who can be clear and consistent with their aids. She would do best with an adult rider who wants to have a fun, engaging ride but is not interested in riding a horse that spooks often, gets overly strong, bucks, stops at fences, etc. She would be especially well suited for an experienced rider who is new to eventing and would like to a fun intro to the sport.

Either way – if any of my blog friends know anyone in the Louisville area who can’t afford/doesn’t have time for their own horse but wants a fun ride 3 days a week – Let me know!



19 thoughts on “If Anyone Knows Anyone…

    1. I have so many sharing problems. Like I know it could be great, but I also know it could be a miserable experience. And I have definitely been talking it out with EVERYONE for MONTHS. hahaha


    1. Thank you! I would LOVE to find a half-leaser that is half as great as you are. I am sure someone could benefit from a ride like May. Maybe a re-rider or someone who needs their confidence back. Or even someone that wants to low key have fun!

      Fingers crossed that we find the right fit.

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  1. I wonder if you’d want to add that she has to be in a lesson program? With someone you trust? I always worry you may get a rider with different buttons than yours and then May is confused and it’s not much fun for anyone. Not sure if that’s even an option. I know this is a tough decision but it sounds like it is definitely the best for everyone!

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    1. Absolutely! The actual ad includes the requirement to ride with the resident trainer (my trainer) 2x a month. I think that is fair without being a massive burden. I know I don’t get to lesson weekly, but 2x a month (or at least trying for 2x a month) should keep everyone on the same page.


  2. Good luck finding someone. I’ve considered it to lower costs but the minimum amount I end up getting out is 4 days a week and I like having the flexible schedule to ride whichever days/times I choose. If i had more than one horse, I might do it.

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    1. yeah, that makes sense. My life is falling into a pretty steady routine since changing jobs at the beginning of the year (no more traveling), but that routine is only leaving me with 3 – 4 days a week to spend at the barn. And I wouldn’t mind adding a pilates or yoga class or something to my routine too!


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